On May 12 I was sitting on the floor in my room, playing with Sam, and trying decide if I wanted to take a nap when she napped, or take a much needed shower. Then I got a call from my Uncle Danny. He was in Florida on a business trip and said that he got a call from the elementary school saying that Davis broke his leg. And they couldn't get a hold of Tiffannie, so the school was going to call me. So after talking with the principal, Sam and I headed over to the ER to meet Davis there.
As a 3rd grader I'm sure it's nice to get out of school, but not under these conditions...after getting through the X-ray ordeal it was confirmed that he indeed had a broken femur! The principal was in the lobby area with Sam since no one under the age of 14 was allowed back in the patient's rooms. Except no one could get a hold of Tiffannie, a neighbor went to their house to let her know, but she wasn't home. So with a note left on the front door and unsure how long it would be, they let me bring Sam back, which put a smile on Davis' face.
Davis was in pain, probably shock too. He kept asking when his mom would be there, then the morphine would take effect and he'd drift off to sleep for a little bit, and then wake up wincing in pain again. It's hard to see kids in pain, knowing there's nothing that I can do to help.
Tiffannie was at Home Depot buying mulch for her yard. She got home, saw the note, ran to the school in a hurry to pick up the other two kids and double check that she was headed to the right hospital, then made record time to the ER, driving "unspeakable speeds". Out of breath, they came running into his room, and her motherly presence helped calm Davis down tremendously.
He had surgery the next day. It was a rough week, but he was a trooper! I stayed with the kids at home, which has increased my respect for mothers! I kept wondering to myself, how do moms do it?! It's not even the kids that determine if it's hard, because Tiffannie and Danny have spectacularly well behaved kids. But taking care of Sam, helping with homework, dinner (which was easy because their ward brought dinners over each night!), taking care of their puppy-Pippa, cleaning, making sure the kids get up and ready for school on time, letting the dog out, figuring out how to turn off the fire detector when I overcook the breakfast, getting birthday cupcakes to Ava's class on time, and all the other things that go along with everyday mothering....I am so thankful I was able to help out a little while Tiffannie was at the hospital with Davis because it taught me so much and opened my eyes to all the good that mothers do, every day. Even if it seems monotonous and unproductive....it's not! Mothers amaze me! And it was fun to see how Savannah stepped up to help out and pitch in, and how concerned they both were with their brother's well being. We had a good time and I'm glad that I was able to spend the week in the Cozzens' home.
Davis came home to lots of cards, treats, gifts, and two very happy sisters. He got inside on his crutches, practically by himself. If I've learned anything about femurs this week, it is that it is not fun to break.
Here are some shots from the week, a week their family will forever remember.
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They had to move him from his hospital bed onto that X-ray table, with a broken femur! And he didn't cry one single tear! His Cozzens blood is full of bravery! |
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Hard to see, but definitely a broken femur. |
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He got a cool bear and blanket from the ER. We are getting settled him settled in his room before surgery. |
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Ava's birthday! Savannah helped her with her poster project, to celebrate the birthday girl! So glad for Savannah's help. Sam was fussy that evening, and wouldn't go to sleep. Ava decided to paint her face with lipstick, like a clown, which took lots of soap and scrubbing to get off. But look at that birthday smile! |
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Davis got up and walked shortly after surgery! Bravery, he's got it! |
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Family photo while Davis takes a break from walking. |
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Ava's birthday! |
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Davis is home! :) |
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Davis is home and we are all so happy. And Ava got to open her presents with everyone there! |
Love, Aubrey